Love is a Battlefield... or so it seems

There have been so many things written about love it isn't funny. One of the most poignant thoughts (to me) is that love is nothing but a battle, fought on the battlefield of life. Here, here is what I say. Nothing in love is ever easy. It's not easy being in love... or for that matter out of love. No sooner are you in love and the battle for control begins... as soon as you are out of love the battle to find love raises its mighty sword ready to swoop down and conquer some poor unsuspecting souls heart. Maybe that is where the saying "love at first sight" came from, or maybe the saying should be rephrased to the rightful "I don't know what hit me". So why is love so difficult? Is it because we constantly "settle" or fall for the wrong person. If you were to ask 50 married couples if they were happy, I think you would be shocked (or maybe not) at the amount who are unhappy. It seems that people get into situations that they just don't know how to handle or even realize why or how they got there. So at the end of the battle who is the victor? The one with the broken heart or the one who did the slaying? There is no right answer only the fact that there is always tomorrow and a new battle field. So to all out there, choose your weapon carefully, and if you must... take cover.
Amourially yours,
Cat x